TJ's First Report

September 28, 2005

The day of August 19th 2005 was unlike any I've experienced in my life.    Could the uniqueness be attributed to the fact that I hadn't gotten any sleep previous night, or the fact that the entire day revolved around many soggy-eyed, lustful goodbyes or perhaps the fact that the day was filled with swarming friends and family like that of a biblical plague?    Perhaps it was the fact that the 19th would be a day marking the beginning of a new metaphorical chapter in my life.  As previously mentioned, I had gotten no sleep the night before my year long expedition into the culture of the not-so-foreign Latin Americans, staying up with friends as if to make a last stand, the final all or nothing night that I would be able to share before everyone was to go their separate ways to pursue what it is that means most to them, for many that meant college.   Time seemed to melt away as last minute packing took place and since there was actually extra room in my luggage, I figured why not pack on a few more of the inessential.   Friends continued to come by the house in an attempt to say one final goodbye before I was off for the next ten months.  As the clock struck three in the afternoon, mayhem was unleashed and yells were heard throughout the halls signifying time to get a move on and as suitcase by suitcase was taken down the stairs out to the porch and the coincidental rain/lightning storm ensued I knew something of incomprehensible proportions was about to take place.  A final good bye was said to my room as if it was to personify the life-long friend that had always been there for me, a medium of refuge that was going to have to be left behind.   Next, a final goodbye was granted to the family dog, Oreo, whose persistent enthusiasm when the jingle of car keys sound in the hands of my father had never ceased to make me grin.   A final picture was taken on the porch, the family, the friends, girlfriend, dog and the pouring rain in the background insisted on making its appearance.  So it was that Mom, Dad, Sister, Ilaria (exchange student from Italy living with us), girlfriend and I loaded up in the family SUV. for the drive to Miami International Airport .  Though I've made this drive hundreds of times, this one felt different, my forehead glued to the window trying to take in every square foot of the trip? I made it to about Bird Road when it started throbbing so I figured it was best to just keep the eyes straight ahead.  

Before I knew it we pulled up to the airport roadside baggage check in, hours in advance of the plane departure as though to assume security would take half an hour to personally check every item in every suitcase of every vagabond in the confined walls of the third largest international airport in the United States .  Once the bags were checked and sent for my American Airlines flight 1945, we did what any American group of travelers trying to kill time would do; we went to the airport Starbuks.   Then after a few more pictures were taken, and we embraced each other for the final goodbye, I made way to the portal of metal detectors, x-ray scanning machines and a sea of stern eyed security guards.   With no problems, I waltzed through to Gate A6 to meet my cheery Bokoff-Kaplan rep., signed in and went to find a seat next to any of the pin-laden exchange colleagues of mine.  Small talk and senseless, 'hello, how are you, where you froms' distracted me from the fact that I still had a hoard of people to call and wish a last farewell.  My cell phone battery was dieing quickly so I wasted no time in excusing myself from the seat and furiously punching in numbers.  Before I knew it I was halfway through a conversation and the clock struck 645pm.  Instantaneously the clear voice of a woman came over the intercom and announced that our plane was about to board.  As my heart stopped and the voice on the other line of my almost dead cell phone was lost in the sea of other clamoring voices in the hectic airport, I collected my things and waited to embark on the 110 ton hunk of Boeing 757.  Then remembering I had a phone stuck to my ear I tried to finish the conversation quickly so that I could check to make sure I had everything.  I might add that taking the extra time to double check that everything is packed proves worthwhile as I had no problems quickly finding my papers, boarding pass and my essential sour gummy-worms, an unquestionable commodity for any trip.

From that moment on, the movie of my life seemed to be in fast forward, voices were no longer heard, only high-pitched chirps and blurred movements of greeting pilots, airline stewardess and fellow passengers. Takeoff from the airport resembled the blast of a bullet out of a high-powered rifle? clouds streamed past my window seat as if the white after burn from an enormous jet engine in the sky.   All went dark.  Then after a couple sodas and a bad attempt of an airline meal, time resumed its normal speed and for the first time I saw the lights of Quito .   The plane touched down, pulled into the dock and like always, everyone was in a rush to go nowhere so I just sat and let everyone gather there things and race off the plane like staying on was a carcinogen.   After getting off the plane I scurried to baggage claim in hoping that the quicker I moved the quicker I could get my things and thus the quick I could get to my new home and get some shuteye for the first time in 48 hours.  Before I made it to baggage claim, there was the stop at customs.  That was a joke because as I walked up to the customs agent and she asked me something in Spanish which I wasn't able to recognize, I just smiled, she stamped my passport and let me walk through.  What followed? more waiting.  Then, as if a beacon of light I spotted my two large black suitcases amongst the dozens of others similar to it due to the fact I had a large blue tag on each.  I collected my things and I was off.  Proceeding through the astonishingly new airport and into the main terminal, I was overtaken by a sea of onlookers, scanning the crowd in order to find their awaited arrivals.  Likewise I was searching for any sign of something recognizable, let?s just use my name for an example.  So it was that halfway past the crowd, I spotted on a loose-leaf sheet of paper the only familiar thing in the airport, ' Theodore Arch '.   I smiled at the trio gathered around the sheet of paper, my host mom, Ana-Maria, host dad, Rene and rotary counselor, Leonardo.  We exchanged our warm greetings, then insisting on helping me with my things we made our way to the parking-lot directly outside of the terminal doors, which is great compared to M.I.A. where in order to get to the parking garage requires a platoon of Himalayan Sherpas.  

Waiting was my host sister, Daniela, eager to drive home and get out of the chilling mountain cold.  She and I instantly engaged in a fragmented Spanish conversation about all kinds of exchange conundrums; she, having gone to Kentucky for a year as an exchange student mistakenly assumed that everyone from United States was the same, and asked what kind of pickup truck I drove, and who my favorite Country artist was, along with other fascinating things about her experience in the Bluegrass State.  The drive was a little under an hour; we live in the valley municipality called Cumbaya.  We drove through the little pueblos which were littered with road side cookeries, street venders, local bars, and other unique cultural elements, all open in late hours of the night, which was interesting to watch through the eyes of an ?gringo?.  Soon however, these niches no longer caught my attention as they are quite commonplace.  We pulled up to the gated in community where I now live, ?Portal De Cumbaya No. 1? , and we were greeted reassuringly by the stationed security guard sporting a bulletproof vest with a handgun, Velcroed to the chest section.  When we pulled into the garage of my new home, I was overwhelmed by the smell of ?new?, like that of climbing into the new car your friends family just purchased.  Apparently the house was just remodeled and new sections added onto the house, such as the new garage.  I was given the tour of the house, everything amazingly furnished and awe-inspiring.  With my parents tired from work, and sister tired from studying at the university, it was needless to say sleep was on everyone?s mind.  

From the moment I laid my head down to sleep to this day, the hours go by in seconds and time just seems impossible to grasp.  I?ve been here for a little more than a month and it seems like I just arrived yesterday, I guess the old adage is true, ?time flies when your having fun?.  Since my first day here I?ve been busy with family and new friends doing everything from riding bikes down mountain trails, enjoying the Arrayanes country club we?re members of, going to various discotecas with my host sister and her friends, enjoying the amazing night life? which unexpectedly is comparable to that of Miami .  Adventures have also taken me to the hot water pools in the mountains which flow with hot spring water, gone camping out at a family friends lodge in the mountains of Nono to go horseback riding, been up cable cars to the highest peek in the mountain range where I live, attended newly made friends birthday parties, picked up games of soccer and so on.  I?ve enjoyed the rich culture of food here, eaten everything from cow skin soup to various types of ceviches, sushi, fondue, and much, much more.  School is an adventure in of itself, though a smidge unorganized at the moment this is my second week of school, it started a week late due to the fact that everyone?s schedules where unaccounted for and problems of the sort ensue to today.  I for one only have three out of the 8 classes at the moment, but progress is being made each day.   Being 18 I?m one of the oldest at the school, and standing almost at six foot puts me in as just about the tallest student here so its fair to say I?ve acquired plenty of minions to carry out my biddings.  My host rotary club has been very kind and supportive; we have monthly meetings at this extravagant hotel in the city where they hold their discourses on complicated matters which in the still-learning-Spanish-mind of mine are still sketchy.  I believe it?s fair to say that I expect nothing less than the best year of my life here in this now not-so-foreign land I now call home.  I believe that brings us all up to speed on what?s being going on south of the border.  I?ve been taking plenty of pictures so they will be on the way shortly.  Hope all is well post Katrina & Rita.  Stay safe and enjoy, I?ll be keeping in touch.

 TJ (Barragan) Arch