Roei Goes Through a Scary Experience in Brazil

November 5, 2004

Wow, my Portuguese is great. I am already thinking in Portuguese, all that’s missing is vocabulary. This month has been a different one. Me and my host mom aren’t clicking, but by Sunday I will be in a new family. We had a week off from school which was great. We went to a lot of parties, traveled a bit and met some people. You know …all that good stuff. My friend (which I met 2 weeks after I got here), left on exchange to Mexico about 3 months ago. Well a few days ago she came back. She didn’t like it. The family and the country were ok, but she is a city girl and she couldn’t stand living in a town of 12,000 people. I found out that school ends soon, about 3 more weeks YAAAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WWWEEEEE AHaHahahahAhAHAhA!!! SUMMER is COMING …..AGAIN!!! That means I had summer break from June-August …now I get it again from November-February and then once again from June-August. Just this weekend we had Monday and Tuesday off because Tuesday was the “Day of the Dead” (a holiday) so they just decided to give Monday off as well. Sadly it didn’t end like any normal day. That night at Acustico was Monday night. We left in a group of 9 and split up between 2 cars. At 05:00 am we went back to the city to a restaurant but before we got there, the other car we went with flipped over. It was going about 160-165 through the city, and the driver lost control and hit the curb, flipped the car upside down and slid some 55 meters uphill. We immediately stopped to help and every 1 was fine besides Marina which ended up with 10 stitches on her head, 1 on her face, a fractured elbow and some minor cuts of glass. I kept my shirt that was stained with Marina’s blood from carrying her, as a self-reminder to obey the laws of the streets, which many Brazilians fail to do due to the cause that they don’t care about the rules. Monday morning, Marina asked me what we wanted to do Tuesday morning, and none of us thought we’d be waiting for some good words from the hospital. I will never forget looking back through the rear windshield and seeing the car sliding up the hill, upside down, with a hope that only the car was damaged. I felt that this was appropriate to share with the other exchange students, future exchange students and anyone else looking at this page, because you never know what you have until you loose it. And I could have lost a good friend, which has 2 parents and a sister. Not just I would feel the pain of the loss, but the family as well as friends would too. And believe me that the driver is drowning in his guilt. I just want to remind all of you that “yes, ‘this is a vacation’ but there is such a thing as too much fun.” Luckily we were warned and not punished. “It will never happen to me” is exactly what I thought too, and you’re not the only one who would think that. And it didn’t happen to me, but it could have if I would have been last at the car I was in, and just switched over to the other one due to a lack of seats. Please, I ask that this not be edited in anyway, it is imperative that this be read for the safety of the exchanges students and anyone else who reads. Thank you. Have fun, but be safe.
-Roei